In the first of this two-part series, Stephen Fry reflects back on just how much has changed for gay people during his lifetime. He meets Elton John and David Furnish, the couple who inspired Stephen to be open about his sexuality as well as many others. In 1st episode, Stephen travels to Uganda, where the government is considering a new law that would make homosexuality a capital crime - putting gay people to death for their sexuality. Stephen meets the men and women targeted by this proposed law and finds out the impact it is already having on their lives. Stephen also travels to the USA to explore 'reparative therapy', which claims to offer a 'cure' for being gay. Whilst in the states, he looks at how Hollywood deals with the gay issue by talking to Neil Patrick Harris, an openly gay man who continues to land leading roles. The 2nd episode sees Stephen visit Brazil, home to the largest gay pride celebration in the world and a place that has some of the best legislation on the planet for gay equality. But it has come at a price. All of the advances have brought about a violent backlash against gay people; on average, one gay person is murdered every 36 hours in Brazil. Stephen sees how this is impacting on the lives of gay men and women there and also confronts the politician leading the fight against gay rights. Stephen also visits Russia, where gays are now worse off than they have been for a long time. Their rights are being constantly eroded by a conservative government, backed by the disapproval of the Russian Orthodox Church. Stephen then travels to India, where the old British laws that criminalised homosexuality have just been overturned. Modern India is now looking to Hindu traditions as it forges a more positive way forward for its gay citizens, including its once celebrated transgender community.
当我一边看的时候我就想着豆瓣上肯定很多人会说印度都拍了，咱们呢？果然，一看和我想的一样。因为我也是这么想的，哈哈
奶奶的戏份怎么那么少呀，故事还是稍显单薄，家长里短的东西太少。结尾也明显美化，这个妈妈比较积极主动。现实中，故事就在分手后结束了。作为潮汕人，看着里面熟悉的场景，各种生活细节，听着亲切的俗语问候，潮语歌，经常就能会心一笑。
从母亲的视角来讲述传统婚恋观念的转变，改变已经不可逆转。未来已来。
之前对潮汕的印象只有潮汕牛肉丸/奶奶好好玩儿/真的是纯方言，普通话对白都没有二十句，完全听不懂，全靠看字幕
对于之前完全不了解潮汕文化的我来说，看到了台湾电影的影子。想来潮汕虽属广东，却与闽南更相像吧。今时今日，潮汕地区宗法制对普通人生活的影响之大，是习惯了亲戚数年不走动，邻居相见不相识的生长于北方偏北城市的我难以想象的，但宗法亲邻，本就与民俗饮食俱荣俱损，两难的事情很难兼美，但不管哪里的妈妈都是最好的妈妈。
把背景换成中国大陆，剧情完全照搬也基本上成立，当然除了游行那段。
强行he，笑点笑不出来，泪点哭不出来
爱真的是不分性别的，印度电影立意甩中国很多烂片八百条街
输完韩国输日本，输完泰国输印度，接下来没人输了，脸都不要了
总有人说，印度电影敢拍，但社会问题依然一大堆，没法解决。
电影源自生活，又总是在美化生活，前半段充满烟火气，妈妈形象很真实，克服偏见接纳外省给了电影一个美满结尾，或许这就是有别于生活之处吧
什么时候我们才能拍出来这样的电影......
2.5星。其实不必过分苛责传统对于人，更甚一步，对于女性的迫害，电影的拍摄本身就是一个发声的过程。虽然困宥于算命拜神，要生男孩，拒绝二婚，宗族人情等束缚，但也能看到年轻一辈对于传统文化，长辈控制，他人看法的反抗逃脱。拍家里人相处的片段特别自然，尤其是儿子和母亲之间的相处，走亲戚送礼物的片段非常有趣。只是作为电影，有很多地方非常生涩，结尾也没有收好。
很成功的小成本电影。刀子嘴豆腐心，挑剔保守却也勤奋善良的母亲形象塑造得鲜活立体。传统潮汕文化与都市文明的碰撞、择偶问题上代际观念的差别、母子之间的恩情与矛盾，影片想要实现多种因素的平衡实在不易，故不得不使人物形象在某些方面趋向与现实不甚相符的美好（例如女主除了离过婚几乎没有“缺陷”、潮汕母亲完全不看重日后的孙辈是男是女），从而实现一种让渡，如此才能为影片画上圆满句号。正如简·爱继承遗产，罗切斯特断腿眼瞎之后方终成眷属一样，影片的设定有保守主义之嫌，但已然是文明向前迈进的一步。一星给演妈妈素人演员。
旧爱重逢，身份认同。潮汕风味的《带你去见我妈》是一部借「改革开放」春风深化「封建迷信」冻土，缓解个体与环境互动中形成的两套「爱情」神话叙事逻辑的冲突，并着重处理「母子」关系的作品。它与处理「父子」关系的《坏儿子》大同小异：父子身份在洗澡一幕悄然发生反转。幸与不幸，历经过「婚姻」失败的《独身女人》显然没有《东北虎》妈狠——无需「流血事件」爆发，一切都是可通过谈判协商解决的「面子」问题。这部小格局「形象」宣传片真正的目的不是邀请「未婚妻」儿远嫁过来，而是鼓励「东北虎」妈出去「闯荡」促谈。无论是谈恋爱，还是谈生意，可不都是「少一点套路，多一点真诚」嘛。影片强调的是「东西」文化贯通，经济特区的「科技之神」手机与周边传统「宗教」意识形态深入融合。趁着这个「百年难得一遇的好日子」重塑家庭格局和世界秩序。
还是欣赏不来这种类型的。同志的确可以参照这种找个都是同性恋的，不然就是害别人！
除了成熟的故事与人设外，影片本身非常市井气，很生活化，将潮汕本土特色都呈现于镜头中。如调味料洒于全片的各种特色喜剧元素更是新鲜趣味，让观众抱腹大笑。
敢拿潮汕开刀，很勇。但全程的注意力在他家有好大的厝（
出轨后还能打电话给对方 3个人一起哺育小孩 2次家庭会议的反转 又觉得好难又觉得感人
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